I am a big believer in controlling your own destiny. That fate will inevitably show you a course, but it is up to you to be wise enough to follow the path.
Recently I have been reminded that you can only control your own actions. Your path may not intersect with someone elses, and it may leave you lonely, to walk on your own, for an extended period of time. But your responsibility is to stay true to you, and not to alter the path of another.
So remember that. You can only control you. Don’t you fret about anyone else, sweethearts.